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About Ben and Efrat.

Soul-mates and partners for life. Leaders, Mentors, Teachers, Friends, Lovers...

Ben and Efrat's mission statement is to provide, assist and inspire around them a life based on love. They have set it as their ultimate goal to teach people that a life in Heaven on Earth, with amazing relationships and continuous development and expansion is possible and obtainable.

Ben and Efrat know how to guide people from difficult and challenging places and lead them on their path, to where they can only see good in their ameliorating lives. They help them with establishing wonderful relationship systems, opening to their sexuality, living a life of true freedom and inner peace, communicating emotions, connecting with themselves and developing a life of personal responsibility.

With time, Ben and Efrat have gained experience and success stories, doing process work with those who experience various difficulties with Interpersonal communication, Sexual harassment, Sexual closure, disassociation with one's feminine side or lack in Love and touch during early life. They established their own unique methodology, which yields outstanding, powerful and quick results, even where other professionals have given up. Their work is based on a set of principles, that enable them a basis of self assurance and fear-less conduct, wrapped with Love, acceptance and non-judgment. In their safe and secure location, in a Loving, sensitive caring environment, people can connect with the beauty of life and reach substantially higher levels and even quantum leaps. Following long years (sometimes decades) of a tough reality, clients reach new and exciting places.

The methodology by which Ben and Efrat work is very unique. There are but a few people worldwide who work in similar ways. Their ability to work behind the lines, boundaries and social conditioning, enables them to see things from a unique, different and independent point of view. This enables them to take their clients as far as they will allow themselves to go and provides for very high paced processes to develop.

Finding The Inner Voice...

Ben and Efrat both come from the earth-bound, "feet on the ground" worlds of science and finance.
They both had professional jobs that kept them going, but something was still missing in their lives, that ingredient to help them achieve "Self Actualization" as Abraham Maslow once put it.
They felt they could contribute a lot more to people's lives.

Years ago, when they embarked on their mutual path they discovered that people were literally attracted to them. People used to come for a hug, an advice, a supportive, encouraging word.
As Stephen Covey suggested in the 8th habit - they listened to their inner voice and in a brave move - changed the course of their lives!

Expertise in Relationship, Sexuality and Personal Development.

Today, Ben and Efrat have worked with thousands of people. They have developed a unique expertise in Relationship, Sexuality, Personal Development and Emotional Communication.
They spend every moment of their day with sheer joy, helping people, either in person or on the phone, through Internet based private sessions, public speaking or empowering others through Social Networks.

Ben and Efrat's special methodology was crystallized from a combination of approaches and techniques, among them are Tantric techniques and methodologies, the Grinberg method, the 7 habits attitude (Stephen R. Covey), the Landmark path, Focusing (Eugene Gendlin), EFT (Gary Craig), Imago, Reiki, Massage therapy and various meditations. They learned and practiced in Israel and the Netherlands with various teachers, including the Institute for Conscious Touch, "Reiki Spirit", Shlomo Shoham and others.

  • Leaders. Inspiring others with leadership by example. Ben and Efrat walk their talk with an outstanding life together. They are very open about their life and relationship, bringing forth teachings from personal experience as well.
  • Facilitators. Their main task is shining the light on a seemingly dark path. They highlight options and encourage self leadership and responsibility acted by free choice.
  • Mentors and Teachers. Ben and Efrat deliver their unique proven system that they weaved and manifested by combining the ancient, spiritual Tantra Vision with newer concepts, adapted to a modern leading-edge life. They teach with courage and work on a fearless basis.
  • Friends and Lovers. For Ben and Efrat, every person is a unique sparkle of the divine. Each one they work with is a love story!

Ben and Efrat firmly believe in the right of every person to practice the qualities of Freedom, Understanding and Love.

Committed To Your Success!

Ben and Efrat's satisfaction and gratification stems from your success. It is enabled through their being:
  • Principle based. Conducting with integrity, they are faithful to their Mission Statement.  Read it and understand better. 
  • Determined!working with total love and determination to the success of their clients. As long as clients are determined to succeed - Ben and Efrat are there with them in total devotion.
  • Fearless!!! This is a principle. It enables them to operate in ways others are intimidated to even look at!
  • Practical. Coming from "Earth Bound" attitudes of Finance and Sciences. Ben and Efrat's Spiritual teachings are well connected with practical, every-day life.
  • Experienced and Direct. Thousands of people have already been helped by them. Their work is experiential, touch and movement based.
  • Original. Ben and Efrat splendidly combined ancient and new. They blended the deep spiritual Tantra Vision with modern perceptions to enable a modern conduct of life with the advantage of old truth and wisdom.

A bit about Ben Shomer, Ph.D.

Spiritual Teacher, Entrepreneur and Leader with an extensive autodidactic ability. Author, Public speaker and performer, exciting, inspiring and stirring audiences.
With an industrial and academic background, Ben possess a deep and precise analytic ability which is combined with a holistic percept and a broadened visioning.

As a young paratrooper, Ben was exposed to numerous fatal combat situations, including war, which led him to deeply understand some true perspectives of life and its meaning. His observation on Awareness, "Living Here and Now" and Seizing the Moment were sharpened.
Along his path, Ben embarked on a unique, powerful personal development process and evolved to discover his inner light and competence to help people.
In 2002 he met Efrat and joined with her on a magical journey to form a strong, leading partnership of teaching, mentoring and assistance.
Ben is a Reiki Master, Certified Massage Therapist, experienced EFT practitioner, Certified Meditation Teacher, Leading and knowledgeable Tantra mentor.

A little bit about Efrat Bustan, C.P.A.

Healer, Spiritual teacher, Author and Master of female empowerment and Women's group therapy works. Efrat is a skillful artist in the arts of emotional work and understanding of human needs. Her natural approach is holistic, to which she added the preciseness she acquired through years of experience in the financial arena.
Efrat is a certified instructor in the Grinberg Method. She completed the entire Landmark Path.
On the more creative side, she studied and practiced Theater with Director Shlomo Plesner, took courses in Psychology, Group Leading and more.
Efrat is the author of a children's book dedicated to emotional handling of parental divorce and a creative artist, expressing herself in drawing and photography.
Together with Ben, she travels through an enchanted garden of Expansion, Expressing her Feminine Empowerment, Teaching, Assistance and Joy.
She is a Reiki Master, Certified Massage Therapist, Instructor of Focusing, Experienced EFT Practitioner, Certified Meditation Teacher, Experienced Tantra mentor.

mission statement

 

 

 

 

 

Amazing concepts, methods and experiences which evolved some 5000 years ago into an attitude which includes in its principles all aspects of life. Tantra is not a religion, but a science, an attitude and a set of principles, interwoven together in a web, accompanied with hundreds of various techniques which evolved throughout the years into meditations, breathing, working with our body and our sexuality.

You are welcome to read further on the Tantra section. of our site.

You may also view a pdf version of our mission statement.pdf

Our life Mission - To provide, to assist and inspire around us a life based on love.

  • We live a full life, based on love and synergy. Our confidence comes from our principles, our integrity, ability to love and from continuous learning and self development. We are responsible for our actions and responses.
  • Body is a sacred temple for the soul. We continuously maintain our health. We strive for healthy nutrition, adequate sleep and physical activity. We avoid consumption of hazardous materials such as alcohol, smoking or drugs.
  • We seek balance and harmony. We are part of the divine and our life is part of a spiritual development process. We are willing to share our spiritual ability and knowledge with every person.
  • We are responsible to update and learn in every personal and professional field of endeavor and objectively examine our sources of information. We are willing to share our knowledge with any person.
  • We are an integral part of this universe and see sacredness in all. Aware of our physical and social environment, we protect the environment and love man, animals, plants and nature.
  • Everyone is equal. Every person who does not hurt us, deserves our love. We approach every person with pleasantness, humility, compassion and politeness, sincerity, honesty, fairness, loyalty, openness and genuine appreciation to the sacred, unique and different in each.
  • Our workplace is pleasant to be at, in the physical, spiritual and social-emotional aspects. It is a place of love, friendship, support and growth, acceptance and encouragement, creation and personal development. Our home is a place to be built from, to long for and love to come back to and is always open for friends and acquaintances.
  • The Universe provides endless prosperity. Financial comfort is important for us. Money is our servant, not the other way around. We profit through decency, fairness, service and providing.
  • We express love with unconditional acceptance and without judgment.
  • We take any measure in creating a protected safe-haven, where one may safely connect with their own being without fear, while investigating their boundaries.
  • Privacy is sacred. We maintain privacy and confidentiality of personal and medical information of every person to whom we assist.
  • We orderly establish the physical, medical and mental condition of every person to whom we assist.
  • We act loyal to our principles which provide us a base of self assurance and conduct without fear.
  • The strength in recognizing and constantly investigating our boundaries, allows us to say “Yes” to life and enables a positive conduct.
  • We continuously and with awareness, examine the limits of our expertise and operate only in the boundaries of our ability.
  • Sexuality is an integral part of one's being. We work with sexuality out of respect and sacredness, completely separate from our personal sexual needs.
  • Nothing is obvious!

 

 

 

 

7 habits

"Seven habits of highly effective people" is an approach compiled by Dr. Stephen Covey, a Mormon leader from Utah, professor at the Brigham University. It has been published in a book bearing this title. The book is a leading title in the reading lists of Business Management schools and forms the basis to Stephen's "Seven Habits" course.

The approach teaches us how to develop a personal leadership and a public one, based on the understanding of paradigms and how they assist in effective processes. This is a holistic approach, with many spiritual and social applications, but speaks mainly to mind and reason, thus its appeal to so many people. We may safely say that this is a life changing approach.

There are two main groups of habits. The first three deal with developing of personal leadership, while the next three, deal with developing of public leadership.
The seventh habit is of self development and consistency, private and public as well.

The unique in this approach, is the inside-out paradigm. The change, says Stephen, begins from within, quoting “Whenever you think the problem is out there – you are the problem”. Personal leadership as a life building motto.

The book explains and instructs, how to establish a proactive character, with emotional independence, which is based on principle as a life center. How to see the end in advance – meaning – understand that you are the creator and the director of your life's movie, and plan this movie ahead of time, to run according to your will and principles. The third habit provides deep insights accompanied by powerful tools, to establishing priorities and time management. It seems that most of us fail "big time" when it comes to setting the right priorities (even the old, the CEOs and key persons among us) and our time management is based on old and long begone concepts.

The public habits, assist us with a change of paradigm when it comes to interpersonal relationship - Starting with the deep principle based insights of acquiring a Win/Win approach, through establishing of a better, empathic communication among people, ending with creating relationships of synergy with our surroundings, where we understand, that genuine cooperation creates a situation where each of our contributions, provides a lot more together, than the sum of them all. One plus one equals three and four and five and ten...

Stephen's seven habits approach was a primary key which helped me in creating a major revolution in my life, and is still today a major tool for us, both in our private life and in working with others.

 

 

 

 

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